The whole idea of death in the District of Jerez is different than here stateside. I wanted to visit all the cemeteries I'd found in the research records. Our host could not understand my desire to go to cemeteries, he said the past was the past! He did take us to the cemetery in Los Aros/Los Haros, I found all the names I have been researching clear back to the 1750's. One could almost feel the ancestors... I also went to the cemetery in El Durazno. They absolutely refused to take me to Panteon de los Dolores in Jerez, they said enough was enough...
I did notice in Jerez that coffins are sold in shops that display them in the window, that was kinda shocking to me. They said when someone dies they have to be buried within 24 hours since they don't embalm. In El Durazno they have the "viewing" in the home then go to the church for the service and then carry the coffin on their shoulders,complete with Mariachi's if they can afford them, and walk the 1/2 mile to the cemetery in a