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FIRST MESTIZO.

I just wanted to write something that I found out recently while 
reading Historia de la Conquista de la Nueva Espana, by Bernal Diaz 
del Castillo. Perhaps many of you know about this story, but anyways, 
it is about the first mexican mestizo. It was not, like I used to 
believe, from the union of Cortes and la Malinche, but rather of 
another espanol way before that.

The story says that when Cortes first landed on the Yucatan peninsula, 
he heard the news from the indian translators that two espaniards were 
slaves in that area. He sent for his rescue, and paid a ransom to 
their masters for their freedom. One of them was a priest called 
Jeronimo de Aguilar. As soon as he was freed, he went to look for the 
other espanol. This is what the book says:

"When he had read the letter and received the ransom, he carreid the 
beads delightedly to his master the Cacique an begged leave to depart. 
The Cacique gave him permission to go wherever he wished, and Aguilar 
set out for the place

Question about Confirmations, and Expuestos

Not offended at all.

Of course I was brought up over here, not in mexico. I think we left there
for good when I was like 4 or 5.


But I was baptized as a baby a couple months old, then when I was like in
first grade I went to catacizim and then made my first communinon, then 13
or 14 my confirmation.


But I guess things are just different everywhere and with each family also.



              ~~glo~~






From: Smiley 
Reply-To: ranchos@yahoogroups.com
To: ranchos@yahoogroups.com
Subject: RE: [ranchos] Re: Question about Confirmations, and Expuestos
Date: Mon, 18 Apr 2005 10:56:55 -0700 (PDT)

...I'm not going to beg to differ with anyone, as I am NOT an authority on
this subject. I spoke in more detail with my MIL and she said that the child
is baptized when they are under 1 year old, then at the age of 3 or later,
they are then confirmed. The timeframe depends on the parents. If the
child has NOT been presented to the church before this time, then

Question about Confirmations, and Expuestos

I made my confirmation in my teen years, not shure which but I think it was
like 13 or 14.




              ~~glo~~






From: Alicia Carrillo 
Reply-To: ranchos@yahoogroups.com
To: ranchos@yahoogroups.com
Subject: Re: [ranchos] Question about Confirmations, and Expuestos
Date: Sat, 16 Apr 2005 22:50:30 -0700 (PDT)

Chris, this all depends on which years you're looking for. In most parishes
this occured at the same time as baptism and in some parishes shortly there
after.


Alicia

Chris Pineda  wrote:
Hey all,

I was hoping for some quick guidance. I requested and
received the baptism microfilm to determine the names
of the parents of my great-grandfather Nicanor Pineda,
born in Tlaltenango.

The problem is that this is the second time, where I
haven't found him for the timeframe in which he was
born.  This has led me to believe that perhaps he was
born in some other city around Tlaltenango and later
moved there.

Anyway, I'm requesting the marriage

Confirmaciones, Expuestos

If one thinks about it, an "expuesto" child was placed
(whether physically or metaphorically) on the doorstep of a church or a home and
"exposed" to the elements, to the scorn and ridicule of the public, and to
take on the sin of its parents.  Illegitimate children paid for their being
the union of the unmarried.  They couldn't hold certain positions or go to
some universities.  It was a terrible existence, and it was not their
fault.  Marge
----- Original Message -----
Sent: Tuesday, April 19, 2005 11:42
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Subject: [ranchos] Re: Confirmaciones,
Expuestos

Hello, everyone,
 
I am like Christopher; I don't know much Spanish or the practices in the
Catholic Church, even though I was baptized and confirmed.  I was
baptized in New Mexico at the age of a few months, then my mother told me that
I was confirmed at the age of 2.  She told me this because when we moved
to California, my little

Confirmaciones, Expuestos

Hello, everyone,
 
I am like Christopher; I don't know much Spanish or the practices in the Catholic Church, even though I was baptized and confirmed.  I was baptized in New Mexico at the age of a few months, then my mother told me that I was confirmed at the age of 2.  She told me this because when we moved to California, my little friends asked me why I had never made my first Communion.  I asked my Mother why, and she said it was not necessary since I had been baptized and confirmed by a bishop in New Mexico.  I don't remember the slap on the face, but I do remember the bishop being angry at me because I kept trying to take his hat and the little bottle of oil from him.  He told my aunt who was holding me in her arms to hold my hands so that he could get on with the ritual.  Strange that I remember that.
 
Later, when I wanted to get married in California, my husband said I had to make my first communion in order to receive the sacrament of matrimony.  I went to classes at the age

confirmations, baptisms & expuestos

To add a note to the conversation about confirmations - I've read hundreds of confirmation records, both in Mexico and Puerto Rico, and they are not usually worth reading unless you're really desperate.  Most list no dates and no parents, and give just the child's name and the padrinos.  

And as for the expuestos, I've come across several who were expuesto en la casa de Don So and So; and I've found them being married 20 years later or included in a will, and listed as Don or Doñã -- hijo/hija natural de, or hijo/hija reconocido de ---, the natural children of the son or daughter or of the master of the house, but unacknowledged at the time of birth because, for people of a certain social status, to have a child out of wedlock wasn't socially unacceptable. 

I've come across several reference to baptisms in Mexico of children over three months old, and the priest explained in the record that the delay was caused by the fact that the rivers were so high that it prevented the child from

Confirmaciones

...Irma...you were confirmed at a very beautiful church!  I remember the 1st time I went to Mexico to meet the future inlaws.  They lived in Lagos de Moreno but were going to go to Guadalajara to pick up my MIL's Mother, so she could go to church.
 
I was dumb and kinda naive at that time, as I did not pay much attention to distance.  I was only the driver.  Here we head out west on 80, and the next thing I really noticed was all these people walking along the road.  Mind you it was about 4:30 in the morning, and no, I did not pay attention to the time.  All I know is that there are lots of people walking along the side of the road and at times in the road. I was thinking these poor people must have to go along ways to get to there jobs.
 
Finally when I almost hit 3 men for crawling on their kness in the road, as I almost didn't see them, did my future husband explain to me where and why they were on the road.  He then proceeded to explain to me that this was done on each year as the

Confirmaciones

I honestly take no offense.  I only have my
recollections, my parents, and local American priest as my resource.  I was
confirmed at the old ripe age of 16 in San Juan de los Lagos, Jal.  Why so
late you ask?  This was due to my dad taking me out of CCD classes in 7th
grade in the US.  Yes, one of his many whims.  :)  Confirmations
in the US at that time were normally done in 8th Grade (13 years). 
 
My church--(I am a practicing Catholic) will have the
individual receive this sacrament when they are ready after 7 years of age--of
course after Baptism.  My daughter just received Confirmation this past
November at her request.  She is 12 years old.  We attended a series
of classes, and it was explained to us that Confirmation used to take place at
1-2, etc., --essentially what I said in an earlier
email. 
 
Anyway getting back to my experience of receiving
Confirmation in San Juan.  The Bishop actually passed me up because he
thought that I was a Godmother.  I was

Confirmaciones

...Steve...my husband remembers his to, but he was slapped hard so I guess that tells you how my husband had behaved growing up...:))  This has been a great topic and learning from everyone.  Thank you for sharing yours...
 
Smiley


"Steve G. Apodaca" wrote:


Hola Chris

Well I was raised Catholic in Mexico. I got my confirmation when I
was 13 or 14, I do not remember exactly. The same thing happened to
my brother who is 3 years older. However, my oldest brothers and
sisters, as well as my parents, were confirmed on their childhood
soon after they were born. Once, I asked my grandma why I did not
have my confirmation when I was baptized, and she told me that in the
past, it was a common practice to confirm children before their
second birthday; however, some priests adviced the parents no to get
the confirmation at that age and wait until the child was 13 years
old, so that he/she could be able to understand the real meaning of
confirmation. I remember that I had to go to

Question about Confirmations, and Expuestos

...Chris & Maria...Thank you so much for not getting upset with me.  I promise I was just trying to help.  I most definitely will learn from what all you have shared with us.  I love to learn from everybody and I usually do...even when I don't want to admit it...smile!  I hope you do let us know what you find out Chris, as I am pretty sure it will help the rest of us.  Thanks again Maria, for your kind understanding...
 
Still Learning,
 
Smiley


Chris Pineda
wrote:


I appreciate all the help people have given me on my
questions.

In regard to the 'Expuestos" question, I did notice
that what followed the 'Expuestos' heading were a
series of names without last names or parental
information (unlike the regular baptism records). So
the notion that these children were abandoned makes
sense. This was for baptism records in the 1850s for
Monterrey, Nuevo Leon.

As for the Confirmations question, the timeframe I was
looking was for in the Tlaltenango records was 1895 or
so, so if I find