Oral History



if anyone in the group wants to submit a short audio clip of some of
their families oral history for my podcast please send it to. I'm not
wanting just conversations but right to the point accounts of what
happened:



Joseph Puentes

PO Box 12123

Durham, NC 27709



the submissions should be in digital format but if they must I can
handle an audio cassette and no more than about 20-30 minutes long. the
following is for interviews if you are doing it over the phone, but
some would apply to a live recording:



hints---



1) if you are using a tape recorder you will get a better recording if
you use batteries rather than plug into the electricity which creates
additional background noise. But if you can find someone with a digital
recorder even if its just as a loan for a day that would be great. Let
me know about which type you will use because you will then need to
take it to your local electronics store: Frys, Radio Shack, other to
find the best way of hooking into your phone line for a

2006 Salt Lake City Trip/conference

I forwarded this to the group for Josie:


Joseph
asked me to bring this to the group every month or so until the
conference happens.  He said that way any new members that join in the
meantime will have the earliest notice available in case they might
want to go.
 
As
far as the proposed research trip to SLC for NEXT YEAR - 2006, I spoke to Ruth Gomez
Schirmacher (Librarian and Latin-American Consultant International
Reference) in SLC when Mickey Garcia
and I
 were there in September.  Ruth helps George Ryskamp put the
Hispanic conference together each year. I told her we (the Ranchos Group members) were
interested in attending next years
conference
and she liked the idea.  We also met with Jonathan
Walker at the library.  He is a very nice person and helped us
tremendously!   He had some very good tips that would be very helpful
to all of us when we do our research on "familysearch.org".........We
spoke to the Director of Sales and Marketing for the Best Western Salt
Lake Plaza

Archived Message

Hi!     Yes, I also agree that Yolanda
has brought back a lot of memories for us with her nice story!  To this day
I feel bad when I step on a grave even if it is sometimes
unavoidable.  I can remember going to the cemetery with my mother when I
was VERY young and being told the same thing - "don't step on the
graves......don't make too much noise.......stop running........behave!" 
while she was cleaning the tombstones of her parents.   While we never
had the "Dia de Los Muertos" celebrations where I lived when I was young in
South Texas, I have been fortunate enough to have been in Oaxaca, MX in
1997 for Dia de Los Muertos.  They do the beautiful "altares" and
sand painting on the floors of different galleries and homes, and it is all just
wonderful!  Of course, I especially enjoyed eating the wonderful "tamales
de flor de calabasa" which I had never had before.  They are
deliciosos!!!!!  Oaxaca really knows how to put on a great festival for the
deceased ancestors! 

Archived Message

Yolanda: what a beautiful picture you painted for all of us.  It shocked my memories in a good way. Thank you.  It reminded me that my abuela Dona Lola, que en paz descance,  was also so serious about the flowers. And we had to walk such a long way from her house to the cementary. She did all the work; I guess we were there just to keep her company and carry the empty buckets back.   We were a small family so there were just two or three graves.  Two of the graves were of her sons who died as teenagers.  She sighed a lot while she washed the tombstones. And we little cousins learned respect; we would be stopped if we got too noisy or chased each other among the graves and especially if we walked on the graves. She said very little when she corrected us; she just looked at us and shook her head. That was enough.     I'm the head Tia now, so maybe its time to revive the custom in my immediate
family.  Around here  silk flowers seem to be appropriate.  Again, thanks.

Yolanda Bobby Perez

Archived Message

I think the reason our relatives didn"t speak of the death of a child is obvious, the pain is overwhelming and in the telling come the tears. "recordar es volver a vivir"  In researching my grandfather Jose Anastacio Medina I discovered four of his siblings dying at a very young age, only he and his sister Margarita survived. Unfortunately they both lost their parents at a very young age and were sent to live with their mother's sister in Santa Rosalia de Camargo, Chihuahua.        And speaking of the dead.....   
  Now that El dia de los muertos is around the corner I recall my abuela materna Aurelia Yanez de Saavedra going to Ciudad Juarez and visiting El Mercado Cuahtemoc to purchase bunches of cut flowers in orange, yellow, white and brown. She would bring them back and put them in tinas full of water to keep them from wilting.  I still remember the vivid colors and the aroma of the crisantemos or "flores de muertos" as she called them.  Later in the evening we would all help

Entierros and the Mexican Mother

My grandmother went thru tough times in Totatiche, Jalisco, including
the Mexican revolution during the early 1900s and then the Cristero
Wars some years later. She used to tell us stories of many of the
hardships she and my grandfather had to endure. As my grandfather was
a professor at the catholic seminary he was considered an enemy of the
state during the Cristero Wars. Several attempts were made to kill
him. We were told that during those times they always had a guard
posted at the top of the church, day and night, whose job was to alert
the town whenever any soldiers were approaching. When that happened
they had to flee and hide in the hills for weeks at a time until the
troops left the town. My grandmother recalled how she had to give
birth in the wilderness while they were hiding and how she lost one of
her children consequently. Another one was lost by drowning in the
river. And some other of her children died by disease and lack of
medicines. Out of 18 births only 12 survived

Films on permanent loan.

Joseph,

Its me again!!! I am dropping you a quick line to
APOLOGIZE again............;( !!!

After I sent my info to you, I read your email that
said not to include live relatives. Please ignore the names after Seferina
Robles. We are still living.Also, I missed the boat  about how to
list  names. In the emails I have received I keep seeing these sites I am
not familiar with. Boy do I feel dumb!!! I am not sure how to see info on others
. Is there somewhere on the site where info is listed and are we allowed to
contact them?

HOPE

Archived Message

That may be true in some environments, but maybe not in
ours.  Growing up, I recall many relatives lamenting death of children. I
still recall my grandfather lamenting the loss of three children who died in
infancy.  I recall him mentioning this on many occasions.  He's the
person who influenced me most in genealogy.  He always listed these three
children.    My father being the second to the last of ten,
always spoke of those siblings who died way before he was ever
born.  He knew their birthdates, cause of death, and death date.  I
remember him describing their deaths quite vividly.  My guess is that these
events were talked about frequently.  Otherwise how could a child recall so
much.  Does anyone else recall such experiences?  Just wonderinfg if
my family is a fluke or something?  :)
I do remember an Anglo-American friend 
recounting her experience of suffering a miscarriage during her stint
as a Baptist Missionary in the jungles of Ecuador. She was shocked when
her

Entierros

I felt an overwhelming sadness when I found my paternal
grandmother's record too.  She died related to childbirth too.  She
left 10 children from 2 months to 16.  I thought I was the only one that
could feel like that over a death that happened so long ago.  My dad was 2
yrs old when his mother died.  Of course he doesn't recall her death, but
it was a real tragedy like many that our ancesters have gone through.  Her
death record said that she had died of a heart-related condition which was
totally wrong.  I discovered that there was another woman who died the same
day:  it said that her cause of death was childbirth-related.  My
guess is that whoever made out the death record--often times scribes training to
be priests got the two mixed up.
Irma



From: ranchos@yahoogroups.com
[mailto:ranchos@yahoogroups.com] On Behalf Of Joseph
Puentes
Sent: Thursday, October 20, 2005 1:14 PM
To:
ranchos@yahoogroups.com
Subject: Re: [ranchos]
Entierros

I love death records. . .hmmm

Entierros

I just looked at my first informacion matrimonial film recently and 
there is a wealth of information in those... a bit of a waste of 
paper and ink, since a lot of it is the declarations of the husband 
and wife to be, which are obviously dictated by the priest and then 
the witnesses who attest to the verbatim same thing about the non-
consanguinity, single state of the couple, etc.  However, if the 
marriage record does not list parents, the informacion most 
definitely will... because of the consnguinity issue.

My problem with Marcos LEMUS and Maria Barbara YBARRA is that I 
cannot find their marriage record at all.  I don't even know what 
parrish they were married in.  Almost definitely not in Colotlan, 
where I would expect, because I have gone through the entire IGI 
extract for the relevant film and there is nothing that remotely 
approaches their names... a few Marcos with no last name but not 
married to any Marias or Barbaras.

There also appears to be no baptismal record

Grandma's Memory Book

 


 

This is a link to a book available from Ancestry.com that serves the
purpose of asking questions of and noting down an elder's memories of their
lives from birth to old age. 

 

Emilie Garcia

Port Orchard, WA ----

Entierros

yes good point you just never know what you're going to find. I've
received films that didn't have what they were suppose to have on them,
but that is the rare exception at least with the films I've looked at.



joseph





George Luna wrote:

I have attached a document from FHL Intl 445242 Entierros (Tepetongo, 
Zacatecas) that is a marriage document. I have found others. Being 
listed among the dead is no way to start a marriage. But, it is another 
reason to look at entierros.
George

Joseph Puentes wrote:

  
I love death records. . .hmmm, that didn't sound right.

I've found great wealth in them, but have to agree that the 
information can sometimes be very slim in them. I find that if the 
person was married it will many times only give the spouses name but 
if the person died as a child then the parents. But in those uncommon 
but wonderful cases it gives the spouse and the parents. and the age 
and the location and that they were previously married (but not who 
to)

Can't find Sena de Abajo and Sena de Abajo, Zacatecas

I have thought about Cienega de Arriba and Cienega
de Abajo myself being the very ones. Unfortunately, my relatives keep
saying that it Siena de Arriba and Siena de Abajo. I have not been able to
confirm the name.  I wonder if they are sounding the name?
 
any thoughts on this?
 
Elvira
 
 
----- Original Message -----
From:
mexicanfhr
Sent: Thursday, October 20, 2005 7:09
PM
Subject: [ranchos] Re: Can't find Sena de
Abajo and Sena de Abajo, Zacatecas

What I found was Cienega de Abajo in the municipio of
Tabasco and a
Ciana de Abajo aka Santa Potenciana in the municipio of
Valparaiso.

I hope that this helps.

Jonathan

--- In ranchos@yahoogroups.com, Joseph
Puentes makas@n...> wrote:
>
>
I looked for it but couldn't find it. I even looked in the Cubas
>
dictionary and came up with nothing.
>
> joseph
>
>

> campezina wrote:
>
> >Can someone tell me where these
two ranchos are located?
> >
> >Can someone tell me anything

Mexico Travel

Thank you, Emilie.  I think that is a great idea.  I am putting it down on my to do list.    Mary

Emilie Garcia wrote:
Hi, Mary,
 
One thing I do for my elderly relatives in their nineties, is that I give them enlarged copies of pictures so they can see details better.  I blow them up on my scanner to 8x10's and they think they have been given something so special.
 
Emilie Garcia
Port Orchard, WA ----
----- Original Message -----
Sent: Wednesday, October 19, 2005 8:20 AM
Subject: [ranchos] Mexico Travel

Mary Allen wrote:

Message: 7     Date: Tue, 18 Oct 2005 19:49:29 -0700 (PDT)      From: Mary Allen mary.allen3770@...      Subject: Re: collecting oral history

Thank you, Natalie: I have gone to the section you recommend and am trying to prepare myself for a good interview. One of the persons I will visit is in her 90s so I will try to do it right the first time.

Mary

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Can't find Sena de Abajo and Sena de Abajo, Zacatecas

What I found was Cienega de Abajo in the municipio of Tabasco and a 
Ciana de Abajo aka Santa Potenciana in the municipio of Valparaiso.

I hope that this helps.

Jonathan

--- In ranchos@yahoogroups.com, Joseph Puentes  wrote:
>
> I looked for it but couldn't find it. I even looked in the Cubas 
> dictionary and came up with nothing.
> 
> joseph
> 
> 
> campezina wrote:
> 
> >Can someone tell me where these two ranchos are located?
> >
> >Can someone tell me anything about them?
> >
> >I understand that families of Apache descendancy settled here  from
> >the US.  Can anyone shed some light on this?
> >
> >Elvira
> >
> >
> >
> >
> >
> >
> > 
> >Yahoo! Groups Links
> >
> >
> >
> > 
> >
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Entierros

I have attached a document from FHL Intl 445242 Entierros (Tepetongo,
Zacatecas) that is a marriage document. I have found others. Being
listed among the dead is no way to start a marriage. But, it is another
reason to look at entierros.

George

Joseph Puentes wrote:

I love death records. . .hmmm, that didn't sound right.

I've found great wealth in them, but have to agree that the
information can sometimes be very slim in them. I find that if the
person was married it will many times only give the spouses name but
if the person died as a child then the parents. But in those uncommon
but wonderful cases it gives the spouse and the parents. and the age
and the location and that they were previously married (but not who
to). And the cause of death.


I've found a few that gave all the details and agonized over the ones
that I so much wanted the details but all it gave was the name of the
person and spouses name and cause of death.


my Grandfather had 11 siblings according

Entierros

Dear Ranchos, I too had similar sentiments after 2 days of viewing and copying death records. There were sooo many deaths of infants within a short time span, some of typhoid fever, some of umbilical infection, some had infantile diarrea and it went on and on with the infants that I felt very sad for almost a week. My husband thought I was going into a depression or breakdown and I think he was worried because I talked a great deal about it and a couple of times I even broke down and cried. I couldn't help but put myself in the shoes of all the parents but especially the mothers who had lost their children. Being a mother and grandmother I know how precious and special it is to be pregnant and to be a grandmother. I can't imagine the grief of losing a child.
 
After talking about it with a niece who is a nurse in Ensenada she asked that i see it from a different perspective. She stated that many of these women barely had a break from one pregnancy into the next and in many cases they

Entierros

Hi Arturo and all,

I've been following this thread because I hit a brick wall on one of 
my lines and had the same thought as Arturo--to look at the death 
records.  However, a recent post by Jonathan got me thinking of 
ordering the Informacion Matrimonial film.  I had not planned on 
ordering that film because I have a copy of the marriage record for 
the couple in question.  I've changed my mind since and I think I'll 
take my chances with the Informacion Matrimonal for the couple.  I 
may find more info there than in the death records.  I thought I 
would mention that to you Arturo, in case that film is available for 
the parrish you are interested in.

Maria

--- In ranchos@yahoogroups.com, "Emilie Garcia"  
wrote:
>
> Arturo,  again I have found the same things in the death records as 
has Alicia.  I always thought my grandmother was an only child, but 
when I checked birth and death records, I found that infant mortality 
was high then.  Also, if a child

Entierros

Hi Arturo and all,

I've been following this thread because I hit a brick wall on one of 
my lines and had the same thought as Arturo--to look at the death 
records.  However, a recent post by Jonathan got me thinking of 
ordering the Informacion Matrimonial film.  I had not planned on 
ordering that film because I have a copy of the marriage record for 
the couple in question.  I've changed my mind since and I think I'll 
take my chances with the Informacion Matrimonal for the couple.  I 
may find more info there than in the death records.  I thought I 
would mention that to you Arturo, in case that film is available for 
the parrish you are interested in.

Maria

--- In ranchos@yahoogroups.com, "Emilie Garcia"  
wrote:
>
> Arturo,  again I have found the same things in the death records as 
has Alicia.  I always thought my grandmother was an only child, but 
when I checked birth and death records, I found that infant mortality 
was high then.  Also, if a child

Can't find Sena de Abajo and Sena de Abajo, Zacatecas

I looked for it but couldn't find it. I even looked in the Cubas
dictionary and came up with nothing.


joseph


campezina wrote:

Can someone tell me where these two ranchos are located?

Can someone tell me anything about them?

I understand that families of Apache descendancy settled here  from
the US.  Can anyone shed some light on this?

Elvira







Yahoo! Groups Links















Entierros

Arturo,  again I have found the same things in the death records as
has Alicia.  I always thought my grandmother was an only child, but when I
checked birth and death records, I found that infant mortality was high
then.  Also, if a child survived only a few hours or days, and was
even baptized with a name, no one remembered that child since they hadn't gotten
to know it and the mothers in their pain and sorrow preferred to forget and not
mention them.  They had to concentrate on the living. 
 
I found that my older relatives were only aware of those infants who lived
long enough to have been a big part of the family with pictures, etc.  My
mother Luisa had a sister born before her named Luisa who only lived a few days,
but she only knew of her other living sister Emilia and one little cutie that
she had a picture of and remembered babysitting until the child died at nine
months around 1910.  I still have that picture of little Alejandra. 
She was as beautiful as an

Entierros

Arturo,
 
I have checked death records for Chihuahua and New Mexico and Texas, and
they give the same information in the same format as that found in the Jalisco
records by Irma.
 
Emilie Garcia
Port Orchard, WA --
----- Original Message -----
Sent: Thursday, October 20, 2005 8:44
AM
Subject: RE: [ranchos] Entierros

Hello.  Since I have only looked at one set of
microfilms for death records, my experience is limited.  What I noticed
about these records from Jalostotitlan, Jal. is that the following is
included:
 

Place or where death
ocurred
 ,   Place or location of Burial--in other words, which
cemetery? ;

 

name of person, age ,  Date of death and
burial,
   
Fecha de
defuncion/entierro,

 

Parents, widow or
widower of the deseased, Cause of death, and whether they received the last
Christian rites or not.

 

Irma


Mexico Travel

Hi, Mary,
 
One thing I do for my elderly relatives in their nineties, is that I give
them enlarged copies of pictures so they can see details better.  I blow
them up on my scanner to 8x10's and they think they have been given something so
special.
 
Emilie Garcia
Port Orchard, WA ----
----- Original Message -----
Sent: Wednesday, October 19, 2005 8:20
AM
Subject: [ranchos] Mexico Travel

Mary Allen wrote:

Message: 7     Date: Tue, 18 Oct 2005
19:49:29 -0700 (PDT)      From: Mary
Allen
mary.allen3770@...      Subject: Re:
collecting oral history

Thank you, Natalie: I have gone to the section you
recommend and am trying to prepare myself for a good interview. One of the
persons I will visit is in her 90s so I will try to do it right the first
time.

Mary

+++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++

Hi
Mary!      Your message above

Entierros

I love death records. . .hmmm, that didn't sound right.



I've found great wealth in them, but have to agree that the information
can sometimes be very slim in them. I find that if the person was
married it will many times only give the spouses name but if the person
died as a child then the parents. But in those uncommon but wonderful
cases it gives the spouse and the parents. and the age and the location
and that they were previously married (but not who to). And the cause
of death.



I've found a few that gave all the details and agonized over the ones
that I so much wanted the details but all it gave was the name of the
person and spouses name and cause of death.



my Grandfather had 11 siblings according to the birth records, but all
anyone ever knew about was 5. I haven't found all the death records but
this would be an area where these type of mysteries can be cleared up,
like Alicia said in her example.



I remember the first time I found my GGG grandmother, Eduarda Torres'

Haplogroup A ancestor

Josie & Linda,

We share the same haplogroup A.  Although we're not an exact match we
do match on some numbers.  Since we're dealing here with mitochondrial
DNA, in contrast to Y chromosome DNA, it means that our female common
ancestor lived thousands of years ago, in prehistorical times.

Mitochondrial DNA is best suited to determine what is called "Deep
Ancestry" of our maternal lineage.  We definitely share the same
Native American roots in the distant past.

Warm Regards,

Victor


--- In ranchos@yahoogroups.com, "Josie T. Trevino"  wrote:
>
> Message: 8       Date: Wed, 19 Oct 2005 03:55:34 -000        From:
"Erlinda
> Castanon-Long" 
> 
> Subject: Re: Haplogroup A ancestor
> 
> Victor you do match me on 4 numbers. mine are:Haplo group A 16111T
16223T
> 16290T 16319A 16335G 16362C 16526A
> 
> Josie, what were your numbers if you don't mind sharing? 
> 
> Linda in Everett
> 
> =================================================================
> 
>