Who are we? was Re: double surnames

Alicia,
 
Regarding immigrants from lands other than Mexico:  When I was working
in San Jose, I saw the first immigrants from Vietnam back in the 1970s, who were
appalled by our habits of individuals eating whole steaks when in Vietnam the
same amount of meat would have fed a whole family.  Yet, little by little,
I saw them gain weight, and their English improved with the help of their
children, born here, going to school and speaking only English.  Since the
kids liked eating at McDonalds as their American friends did, the mothers saw
the convenience of taking the kids there for dinner rather than going home and
fixing dinner when they were tired from their jobs.  Also, I once watched
show on TV about a spelling bee that took place in the South where the winner
was a young girl of Vietnamese descent.  She had such a drawl that had
I closed my eyes, I would have sworn I was listening to a blue-eyed, blonde
Southern belle!  They learned quickly that "when in Rome, do as

Who are we? was Re: double surnames

Rosalinda,
 
What a great group this is.  I agree with everything you say, but you
should not feel guilty about anything --- not about not being fluent in Spanish
(English is the language of this country), about enjoying the fruits of your
labor (that is why our ancestors left Mexico), about the plight of the new
immigrant (you can fight for them by voting in their favor, coming to their
defense when someone bad mouths them in your presence, sending contributions to
those on the front lines of sober activism), etc.  You are doing your job
as you said you do, in your classroom.  As for that student that wonders
why you should be teaching English when you are Mexican:  don't let him
make you feel different; it is he who perceives you as different.  (Makes
me wonder what he has learned at home).
 
I too had to learn English and forget my Spanish and ended up being
more articulate in English than many who have never known any other
language.  (As a second grader, I could

Dialog of the Dead --> with the Living

Victor,
 
As usual your observation is as astute as always.  I did identify with
some of the debaters, those that took the middle road.  I think we all need
to get together and advance our situations by sticking together and not
going off on tangents to the extremes, such as the Aztlan group.  It is
unfortunate that those in that group do not realize that people like Pat
Buchanan stir the Anglo populace up by making it look like that fringe group
speaks for us all, and that we are all into "Reconquista" which brings up to the
Anglos the specter of armed brown hordes seeking to re-conquer the
land.  We are slowly re-conquering anyway, due to the American economy
being so dependent on cheap Mexican labor in manufacturing, agriculture and
services.  We just need to tone down our resentments and work towards
ensuring that this country remains the bastion that it has been for human rights
for everyone.  We can't afford to take any backward steps.  We must
acculturate, but

double surnames

Yes, Peggy,  regarding your comment about not knowing which is
worse---comments about your ethnicity from Anglos or from Mexicans:  my
husband was made fun of by a group of Mexicans in the Marines when he went out
on the lawn at Camp Pendleton to lie down and try to get a tan.  Though he
was as white as snow, they still thought it was inappropriate for someone named
Antonio Garcia to get a tan, that only "gringos" should do that.  Also,
when he hears someone speaking Spanish and he joins in, he gets surprised
looks. As for the comments from Anglos, I recall another incident at his
workplace later that someone told him, "Oh, I didn't know you were
Mexican.  The only Mexicans I have ever known were little brown guys
working construction".  Yes, the political incorrectness comes from both
sides.
 
Emilie
----- Original Message -----
From: Mary Allen
Sent: Thursday, January 12, 2006 7:37
PM
Subject: RE: [ranchos] Re: double

double surnames

Emilie and all,

I've been enjoying your messages and agree with you about identifying 
myself as Mexican.  My 25 year-old son said it best when he told one 
of his friends that his parents were both Mexican, so that makes him 
Mexican.  He is pretty Americanized, but still appreciates his 
Mexican culture.  He doesn't define himself by his ethnicity, but 
that doesn't mean he isn't proud of it.

Emilie, I chuckled at your comment about Aztlan.  I'll have to 
remember to ask if it's south, east, north or west of Atlantis next 
time I hear it.

Maria

--- In ranchos@yahoogroups.com, "Emilie Garcia"  
wrote:
>
> Linda,
> 
> When some Anglo says "you don't look Mexican" it means that you 
don't look like his idea of Mexicans formed by most of the Mexicans 
he has seen---field or orchard workers, very dark, made darker by the 
sun, very small due to their mostly Indian blood, pitch black hair 
and eyes, poorly dressed, not too clean due to their constant labor 
in

Who are we? was Re: double surnames

Reading all of your thoughts makes me
wonder what my children will feel. I guess I come from a completely different
side. My parents are (of what we know) of Irish, Scottish, and American Indian
descent. I have no relatives that I know from
Mexico but my husband is from Mexico. Before we were married I had to confront some beliefs and
feelings that were very ingrained in me that I never knew I had. I struggled
with the idea that the man I loved and wanted to share my life with was from
Mexico. I am embarrassed to say I felt that way. The term Mexican to me
was always kind of a derogative term. Early on when we were just dating I even
wished he was from another part of the world that sounded more exotic. I was a
missionary and learned Spanish and I was comfortable helping families but that
was were my comfort zone ended. Time teaches you many things. I wondered
whether the differences I thought we had were too wide for us to be able to
gap. Remembering my thoughts makes me

Who are we? was Re: double surnames

I used to have a problem with the name or term Chicano/Chicana. When my son was in college and took Mexican/American studies he gave me a different perspective and I now accept that term without feeling denigrated.
In addition to accepting this term I accept many other terms, the way I see it is we still can't figure out who we are, what we are called or what we call ourselves so why should I expect others to know. To me the most important thing is to feel good and comfortable in my skin. There are times I choose to be more Mexicana and times I choose to be more Americana and yes I know Mexico is America but I use Americana loosely as in Gringa. I have the freedom to be both and I consider that a gift, a choice that I make on a daily basis. Some of my habits are from my parents and ancestors and some are newly acquired from my adopted land.
I do have to say that the reason I do geneaological research is to know more about who I am, where I come from and
what makes me tick and why

Who are we? was Re: double surnames

ORALE CARNALITA: ROSALINDA
Sabes me dio mucho gusto saber que tu eres una de los/as descendientes del movimiento CHICANO de los 60's. I, too like your father was there in the middle of the borlote.  We in those years came up with the name of chicano/a to identify ourselves as mexicanos de aca. Theres is noting wrong about the term chicano, however it needs to be explained why it came to be...

Alberto Duarte
wrote:

Good write up...
I have in the past felt that same way as you have
written.  And this is the reason I enjoy and indulge
in genealogy--to learn who I am and where I came from.

Alberto Duarte Prieto
Santa Maria, California

--- lareina2@...
wrote:


---------------------------------
The issues of acculturation and assimiliation run deep
and are painful in this land of multiethnic and
multicultural groups.  What do I call myself?  Who am
I?  Much of the pain of the generation that follows
the immigrant one often causes much confusion, and
sometimes, self-hatred and denial of

Who are we? was Re: double surnames

I agree and could not have said it as well.
Aqui esta un dicho bien dicho. "A la tierra que fueres hacer lo que vieres". meaning ''in the land that you go to, do as you see. This not only applies to our race and culture but to all other immigrant races and cultures. I have had this conversation with good friends who are of Italian, East Indian, Vietnamese, Persian, Japanese etc.
We all experience the same emotions, stirrings and questions about inculturation, about the loss of our ancestors' heritage and traditions and our language. I believe that some lose their ancestors' identity alltogether and some straddle both cultures and some never leave their ancient cultures.
I have evidence of all of the above just within my siblings. My oldest sister is the most entrenched in our parent's culture and heritage. Two of my youngest siblings have moved completely away from our Mexican Culture and three of us straddle both
cultures leaning equally to both sides, the Mexican and the

Who are we? was Re: double surnames

I was asked this past week at work (I'm a library clerk) by a black gentleman if I had Indian blood. I responded that I did, on my father's side but that it was so remote as to be almost impossible to name. (Moctezuma's daughters are my ancestresses.) My father's father's mother probably had Indian, but what kind, who knows?



Anyway, I wasn't insulted just surprised. The funny thing is is that my features are my Scots mother's but my coloring is a paler version of my dad's. I have salt and pepper hair like my Jerezana grandmother and her almond-shaped eyes. I have funny colored eyes...I don't think they're those eyes we were discussing earlier in December. Sometimes if my skin flushes or I'm red from being out in the sun, they're almost hazel. I DO consider myself Hispanic as opposed to Mexican because I had more Scots influence in my formative years and I'm married to a South American of Italian descent, so our family is more continental than Mexican. But I can't and don't

Who are we? was Re: double surnames

Good write up...
I have in the past felt that same way as you have
written.  And this is the reason I enjoy and indulge
in genealogy--to learn who I am and where I came from.

Alberto Duarte Prieto
Santa Maria, California

--- lareina2@... wrote:


---------------------------------
The issues of acculturation and assimiliation run deep
and are painful in this land of multiethnic and
multicultural groups.  What do I call myself?  Who am
I?  Much of the pain of the generation that follows
the immigrant one often causes much confusion, and
sometimes, self-hatred and denial of ancestry.  How
can I call myself a Mexican when I can speak only a
rudimentary Spanish and only visited the birthplace of
my grandma and great-grandma once?  When I visit
Mexico, I recognize its beauty and its devastation,
and when I land in the United States, I am happy to
drive my sedan, go inside my condo, and turn on my tv
to "Law and Order."  Both my parents are of Mexican
descent, but both were born in the US.

dialoge of the dead?

Linda I understand about them words. I consider myself a Mexican Indian
female. And I dont like it when someone calls me Chicana, Hispanice or
Latina. Because to me I am none of them titles. Just my 2 cents.




              ~~glo~~







From: "Erlinda Castanon-Long" 
Reply-To: ranchos@yahoogroups.com
To: ranchos@yahoogroups.com
Subject: [ranchos] dialoge of the dead?
Date: Thu, 12 Jan 2006 17:08:57 -0000

Joseph, WOW!!!!

What a great format for airing our concerns about who we are as a
group of people as diverse and any other ethnic group!

My father hates to this day the word "Chicano" because in his younger
days in California it was used in a very negative, gang style manner.
To him it's a put down and very militant.  I guess that's how we pick
up our own racist attitudes, we learn them at home... I still cring
when someone calls me Chicana.. so much to unlearn and with the help
of forums like this I'm getting better!

thank you again Joseph
Linda in Everett

double surnames

Just  thought I would make a comment about 
identity from a different perspective.
 
    My uncle Tomás,  who never set
foot in the US and of course, did not speak a word of English, told me the
following:
 
    "We are Tlaxcalans. We are not Mexicans
although one of our greatgrandmothers was an Aztec." He used to say that in our
family dona Cecilia was the only Mexican.  As I said before, She was a
Mexica (Aztec or Mexican).
 
    He chafed everytime someone from the
area in Coahuila my family settled in said  "we are Mexicans". He used
to say that that moniker (or gentilicio as it is properly called) became popular
around the 1930 with a push from the Mexican government to unite  the
nation. Apparently before that people still were having problems feeling
themselves Mexican. Once a group of officials from the Mexican government
 told the people at a meeting of agricultores "You are all Mexicans." 
My uncle and the others promptly responded  angrily "Lo serán

Photos in ranchos

Oh what a photos exposition I went trough! Some tears it cost me. What 
a treasure! Cameras are time machines, the images are frozen but they 
rock and roll a world inside of us, innocent expectators, I traveled 
in the company of unknown people, but maybe it is the influence of the 
feeling "belonging to a group", but felt them like family. It is true 
then "nobody dies until it is forgotten". My mom past the way fiftheen 
years ago and she is so around me, when I see her in photos she is so 
photografed!   Leticia Leon Morales




Who are we? was Re: double surnames

The issues of acculturation and assimiliation run deep and are painful in this land of multiethnic and multicultural groups.  What do I call myself?  Who am I?  Much of the pain of the generation that follows the immigrant one often causes much confusion, and sometimes, self-hatred and denial of ancestry.  How can I call myself a Mexican when I can speak only a rudimentary Spanish and only visited the birthplace of my grandma and great-grandma once?  When I visit Mexico, I recognize its beauty and its devastation, and when I land in the United States, I am happy to drive my sedan, go inside my condo, and turn on my tv to "Law and Order."  Both my parents are of Mexican descent, but both were born in the US.  On my mom's side, both my grandparents were born in the US as well.  When my maternal grandfather was offered the opportunity to visit deep into Mexico (not Juarez or Tijuana), he said, "My parents left Mexico for a reason.  Why would I want to return?"  His practical Texan mind

Dialog of the Dead --> with the Living

--- In ranchos@yahoogroups.com, Joseph Puentes  wrote:
> >
> http://www.historynothype.com/deaddialog.htm
> 
> DIALOG of the DEAD--An Interactive One-Act Play
> By
> Rubén Sálaz Márquez
> 
> © Copyright 2005 by Rubén D. Sálaz
> 
>  Dramatis Personae
> 
> Narrator (female), Chicano, Above-It-All, María (female), Latino, 
> Immigrant (female), Hispano.
> 
> Heckler, Policeman, Immigration Officer (female), Army Soldier,
Sheriff, FBI Agent. Two male stage hands.
> 
> Dual roles:  Heckler/Sheriff; Policeman/Stagehand.
> 
> Scene:  The stage is dark and bare except for the Narrator standing 
> behind an upstage, brightly spotlighted (overhead) podium. 

Joseph,

That play sure is thought provoking.  By personifiying the prevalent
views of different segments of American society in an imaginary (but
realistic) debate, the first reaction from the spectator (or reader)
may be to identify with one of the characters in the play.  

But by the way the author chooses to end all, he's

double surnames

Peggy:  It can even happen among friends.  Our high school class still tries to get together once a month for lunch and we always meet at a Mexican restaurant.  We were over 600 in our class, but usually we are just about 20 present.  And almost always I am the only Hispanic present. 
 
Two lunches ago I was asked about what I was doing.  I stood up (because I was in a hurry to return to work) and quickly explained about the excitement of working on my family tree and my trip to Mexico.  In a voice loud enough to be heard throughout the restaurant, one of the fellows commented; "Oh, I didn't know you were Mexican!"   Everyone froze. People at the other tables turned in our direction.    I was speechless.  "I'm American." and before I could continue,  a classmate  added in a you-idiot-kind of voice as she glared at him. "...of Mexican
descent."      "I hope that isn't a problem..." I added, even as I felt anger coming over me.  But I managed to smile, wave and left.  I could hear

double surnames

Linda,
 
When some Anglo says "you don't look Mexican" it means that you don't look
like his idea of Mexicans formed by most of the Mexicans he has
seen---field or orchard workers, very dark, made darker by the sun, very small
due to their mostly Indian blood, pitch black hair and eyes, poorly dressed, not
too clean due to their constant labor in dirty places.  You probably speak
English without an accent, too.
 
When asked a question by an Anglo and I don't respond instantly, inevitably
comes the next question, "Do you speak English?"  Most people in the
Southwest and California "know" that I am "Mexican"; I look "typically" Mexican,
but the Asian cast to my eyes throws people who are more familiar with
Filipinos, Native Americans, Pacific Islanders, Thai, etc. such as up here in
the Northwest.
 
When asked what I am, I say I am Mexican and Native American (in Mexico, I
am a Mestiza or Morena).  When asked by a Latin American in Spanish "eres
Latina?", I say "Si, soy

double surnames

Linda,
I get something like that when asked what nationality I am.....one time at my
work's cafeteria, a man approached me and asked, "Excuse me, what are you, from
India?  Oh no, I got it, you're polynesian...you look so exotic! (not sure
whether he was flirting or not)"....so I'm just staring at him and I said, "No,
I'm Mexican-American...."  I said this with a proud smile on my face. 
He looked shocked.  He was like "No, you couldn't be Mexican....are you
mixed with something else?"  At that point, I gave this pest my famous
"raised eyebrow" and a smirk, turned and walked away.  Now mind you, I
don't know what people mean when they say, "you don't look Mexican"....I just
chalk it up to peoples ignorance. 
 
Peggy
-----Original Message-----
From: ranchos@...om
[mailto:ranchos@yahoogroups.com]On Behalf Of Arturo
Ramos
Sent: Thursday, January 12, 2006 11:56 AM
To:
ranchos@yahoogroups.com
Subject: [ranchos] Re: double
surnames

Erlinda:

The whole Chicano vs.

double surnames

Erlinda:

The whole Chicano vs. Mexican-American vs. Latin@ vs. Hispanic debate 
is a very contentious one in the United States.  I think that all of 
those terms are very politically laden such that there is no single 
one that everyone would agree with.  There is an interesting episode 
where the renowned author Sandra Cisneros balked at being featured in 
Hispanic magazine because of such a disagreement.  She agreed only 
after the magazine agreed to show her on the cover in a profile shot 
with a fake tatoo reading "LATINA" across her arm.

There is an interesting article on this:

http://www.hispanicmagazine.com/2000/dec/Features/latino.html

I suppose that if you want to designate descendancy from peoples of 
Mexico, Mexican or Mexican-American would be the most precise.  I 
will leave my commentary at that lest I get myself in trouble.

Interesting thing though, I have run across documents where the 
indigenous peoples of the area around Colotlan and Totatiche would 
refer to

dialog of the dead?

Any actors/actresses in the group?



I would like to get this play into audio format for the NFU podcast.



If we can find enough people to play all the parts we can produce it
ourselves (that is if the author says its okay, at the present he's
trying to get it done and gave me permission to work on the project
also, but I'm not sure he'll let me do the whole thing).



so are there any actors/actresses in the group?



joseph



Erlinda Castanon-Long wrote:

Joseph, WOW!!!!

What a great format for airing our concerns about who we are as a 
group of people as diverse and any other ethnic group!

My father hates to this day the word "Chicano" because in his younger 
days in California it was used in a very negative, gang style manner.  
To him it's a put down and very militant.  I guess that's how we pick 
up our own racist attitudes, we learn them at home... I still cring 
when someone calls me Chicana.. so much to unlearn and with the help 
of forums like this I'm getting better

dialoge of the dead?

Joseph, WOW!!!!

What a great format for airing our concerns about who we are as a 
group of people as diverse and any other ethnic group!

My father hates to this day the word "Chicano" because in his younger 
days in California it was used in a very negative, gang style manner.  
To him it's a put down and very militant.  I guess that's how we pick 
up our own racist attitudes, we learn them at home... I still cring 
when someone calls me Chicana.. so much to unlearn and with the help 
of forums like this I'm getting better!

thank you again Joseph
Linda in Everett




Dialog of the Dead: was-double surnames





Erlinda Castanon-Long wrote:

I want to thank everyone for the input on double surnames and y versus 
de... I had forgotten that I use a double surname too!  I felt I 
didn't want to give up my Hispanic maiden name so just hyphenated it 
with my married name.  That makes me Castanon-Long, I guess in Latin 
America that would make me Castanon y Long ... I found at the family 
reunion that most of my female cousins from my generation did the 
same.  Many of us did not marry Hispanic but would have kept our 
maiden name regardless. Just like someone said, it's a matter of 
family pride..

One more question.. which is 'politically' correct to designate our 
nationality of origin if we or our ancestors were from Mexico... 
Hispanic, Latino, Mexican-American or American-Mexican? 

http://www.historynothype.com/deaddialog.htm


DIALOG of the DEAD—An
Interactive One-Act Play

By

Rubén Sálaz Márquez

© Copyright 2005 by Rubén D. Sálaz

 

 Dramatis Personae

Narrator (female),
Chicano

double surnames

I want to thank everyone for the input on double surnames and y versus 
de... I had forgotten that I use a double surname too!  I felt I 
didn't want to give up my Hispanic maiden name so just hyphenated it 
with my married name.  That makes me Castanon-Long, I guess in Latin 
America that would make me Castanon y Long ... I found at the family 
reunion that most of my female cousins from my generation did the 
same.  Many of us did not marry Hispanic but would have kept our 
maiden name regardless. Just like someone said, it's a matter of 
family pride..

One more question.. which is 'politically' correct to designate our 
nationality of origin if we or our ancestors were from Mexico... 
Hispanic, Latino, Mexican-American or American-Mexican?  I find I 
really upset some people when I call myself Hispanic. I'm told that 
excludes my Indio blood... People ask me what my nationality is 
because I'm just brown enough to not be Anglo but have light green 
eyes, my sister get's the same