After replying, I hit some key and erased everything I had written with so much passion. That is good; now I can take a deep breath and be calm.
I do think you are correct in your evaluation. Wife #2 was very possessive. I am certain of it. When Petra was a lovely 22 year old living with her madrina, she received a photo of her father with this attractive very young woman he identified as his wife. I can only imagine what Petra felt as she noticed that the woman had not only linked arms with her father but was holding his hand, rather awkwardly, as well. She is hanging on to him! I would consider the photo rather indiscreet. Most photos of the time were rather formal. Now when I see the photo it really annoys me.
I am trying to find out who the madrina was. I think her name was "Mariquita" but that is all I have. After having
enjoyed a rather affluent life, when Petra moved in with her madrina, she had to help her in her little store. I don't think she was